Nigerian entrepreneur and philanthropist Sophia Momodu has opened up about the emotional toll of public criticism she faced after becoming pregnant outside marriage, revealing how the experience left her struggling with shame and silence for years.
Momodu shared her story during a panel discussion held on the sidelines of activities marking the 81st Session of the United Nations General Assembly (UNGA) in New York, where she is representing the Precious Jewels Foundation at events focused on inclusion, community development and social impact.
Reflecting on her experience, Momodu recalled the intense public scrutiny that followed the birth of her daughter, Imade, whom she shares with Afrobeats star Davido. As the daughter of a pastor, she said the criticism was particularly difficult to navigate.
“I am a pastor’s daughter who got pregnant out of wedlock by a global superstar. And I was mocked. It was crazy,” she said.
According to Momodu, the judgment and negative attention surrounding her pregnancy affected her confidence and ability to speak openly about her experiences. She noted that societal expectations, especially within religious and family environments, often place women under immense pressure to remain silent when faced with situations that attract public disapproval.
She explained that for a long time she felt unable to share her story, adding that many women experience similar challenges but are reluctant to speak because of fear of criticism and stigma.
Momodu, however, said a turning point came when another woman provided her with a platform to express herself. The opportunity, she noted, helped her regain confidence and encouraged her to use her voice more purposefully.
Her remarks formed part of wider conversations at the UNGA side events on empowerment, inclusion and the importance of creating safe spaces where individuals can share their experiences without fear of judgment.
Over the years, Momodu has built a public profile as an entrepreneur and advocate while raising her daughter in the spotlight. Her comments have renewed conversations about societal expectations placed on women, particularly single mothers, and the need for greater empathy and support.
As global discussions on inclusion and social equity continue at the United Nations, Momodu’s story highlights the personal challenges that often lie behind public narratives and the importance of creating opportunities for people to reclaim their voices.
